Wednesday, March 24, 2010

The Hard Road Begins

Lots of messages between Michael and I today. I informed him of my mediation appointment (as per the suggestion of the mediator)I let him know that they would contact him. What do you think was his response?
I also was shocked to know that he refuses to attend any mediation that is not court ordered. I know you also are surprised by this. Michael is not one to be so difficult.
So here I sit knowing that the shit will begin. He has let me know that he willmake sure the journey is slow and expensive. He gave me a choice to agree with him and do what he wants or he will drag it out.He obviously hasn't had any true legal advice...I guess the internet hasn't provided him with the information that he wants.
He continues to use my visits with my children on his weeks as his ammunition to try and manipulate the situation. Both the mediator and the solicitor said he could not do this. He always thinks he is right.
So I guess I need to prepare myself for a messy time. He does not seem to have anyone around him that is helping him to see anythng from somebody elses point of
view. No surprise really.

It just makes me really sad......


  1. OMG! True colours.................

  2. “Being ignorant is not so much a shame, as being unwilling to learn.” Benjamin Franklin

    He continues to make the same mistakes... what can you do?? Stay strong. xxxP